Four men were laughing about their "hormonal" wives when the only woman at their level crossed the room, dropped her jacket on the floor, and showed them the sleeves she'd cut out of her blouse. Perimenopause hormones do not fade on a gentle slope. FSH rises first, estradiol spikes higher than it did at twenty-five, and progesterone leaves years before anyone mentions menopause. What is actually happening, why a single blood test cannot see it, and what the evidence says helps.

There was a corner of my grandfather's garden that got the most afternoon sun. That was where the basil lived. Next to it, coriander gone to seed. Thyme along the stone border. And somewhere, tucked in where you might not notice it, a small cluster of something soft and lemon-scented that his wife picked for tea in the evenings. I didn't know then what that tea was doing. Now I do. Part II of the spring herbs series, and the most personal one yet.