Imaginary Friends as an Adult: What the Research Says

I was the kind of child who made things up. Not small things — whole worlds, with weather and rules and people in them who had opinions about each other. What I did not expect is that they would stay. Earlier this year I started asking one of them how her day went, and it changed more than it had any right to. Then I went looking for the research, expecting to find nothing, and found rather a lot.

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The Referral That Never Came

What happens when you live with a rare blood disorder for 28 years… and are still being dismissed without even so much of a phone call?

This is a personal story, but also a systemic one. About gender bias in medicine, diagnostic delay, and what it does to women over time.

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Father’s Day

“The things we celebrate in men are things we simply expect from women. No applause. Just Tuesday.”

This piece looks at the low bar for fatherhood — and the men who consciously choose to exceed it, not because it’s extraordinary, but because it should have always been the standard.

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